Stories That Comfort

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“The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.” ~Thomas Paine

“Conflict is drama, and how people deal with conflict shows you the king of people they are.” ~ Stephen Moyer

One of the tenants of good storytelling is to have plenty of conflict for the characters to deal with so that as the story progresses and finally ends, we feel satisfied by the lessons learned.

Great stories make us feel like we’ve been right there by the side of the characters. We see the dangers or relationship traps they might fall into and yell at them to watch out, or whisper to them not to make that choice.

In the most enduring stories, the characters are elevated by facing their fears, healing their wounds, and forgiving themselves and others. That’s on the one hand. On the other are stories like Macbeth or Hamlet, where the main character goes down a dark path and is defeated in the end. But those kinds of stories can teach us important lessons about pursuits that can destroy us. Those however, are not my favorites.

When I choose a book to read, TV series, or movie to watch, I’m looking for a warm feeling at the end. Life is hard enough. I’m not interested in seeing society destroyed, or a huge body count and then the “hero” going off to continue his or her quest for death and destruction. I quit watching or reading stories where the characters are going on a downward spiral. 

I recently read the second book, Under the Pawpaw Trees, in a series by my latest Story-Power guest, Cheryl King so we can record a new conversation about it for my Patreon Community. Her first novel is titled, Sitting on Top of the World. The stories take place during The Great Depression and begin when main character June Baker is 12 years old. Everyone in her small Tennessee town struggles, but through the two books June is beset by tragedy after tragedy that she must find a way to deal with.

I read Sitting on Top of the World while the pandemic was still grinding on and the world Cheryl created for June and her family to live in felt so familiar. Everyone in the book was affected by the difficult economic times and some of them had to risk their lives to try to help their families survive. 

In book two, Under the Pawpaw Trees, June is now 15 going on 16 and grieving the losses forced upon her by the continuation of the Depression. In her mind the tragedies that have happened can be placed at the feet of one man, someone who helped her in book one. However, she discovered he wasn’t who she thought he was. So in book two she’s out for revenge. But June discovers that what she thought was true, isn’t. She gains a new perspective that allows her to forgive. 

After finishing this second book, I didn’t feel like starting another one. I wanted to think about June and all she’d gone through as the two stories unfolded and how Cheryl King turned the ending to something satisfying and heartwarming. I wanted to hold onto that great feeling for as long as I could. Even though the pandemic is winding down now, we’re all still experiencing upheaval in our societies. And, I don’t know about you, but most of the people I know are feeling anxious, so anything that can alleviate that is a good thing.

What kinds of stories speak to you or are your favorites and why? I’d love to start a discussion about what you enjoy and learn from stories.

Have a wonderful weekend. If you live in the Northern Hemisphere, stay cool.

Blessings,

Lucinda Sage-Midgorden

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I’m so passionate about stories and what I can learn from them that I created the Story-Power podcast and Patreon communities so I’d have an excuse to talk story. You may have seen my Story-Power posts here. If you’re passionate about stories too, and want to talk about your favorites, come join me at patreon.com/StoryPower.

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Historical Books that Evoke Familiar Feelings

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“Humans are not ideally set up to understand logic; they are ideally set up to understand stories. ~ Roger C. Shank, Cognitive Scientist

Bio: Cheryl King is a dyslexia therapist and author of teen historical fiction Sitting on Top of the World, a 2022 Eric Hoffer YA winner, First Horizon winner, and Grand Prize finalist. She is working on a sequel and enjoying various flash fiction contests. Readers can learn more at https://CherylKingWritesThings.com.

Cheryl’s website: https://cherylkingwritesthings.com/

Cheryl’s second book, Under the Pawpaw Trees, both books available at, Amazon, Apple books, Barnes and Noble, Walmart, Bookshop.com, and her website.

Book narrator, Whitney Dykhouse

ACX, an Audible company

NYC Midnight Flash Fiction

Eric Hoffer Book Awards, for Small, Academic, and Independent Press

The Space Between Time, Lucinda Sage-Midgorden on Apple Books

Sunflowers Beneath the Snow, Teri M. Brown, novel about Ukraine, Story-Power episode 67, 1/25/23

Steampunk, according to Wikipedia, Sci-fi stories which “features anachronistic technologies or retrofuturistic inventions as the people in the 19th century might have envisioned them.”

The Invisible Library, Genevieve Cogman, book on of the series.

Embers at Galdrilene(Dragon’s Call series book 1) A. D. Trosper, She has other series as well. Story-Power episode 28, 8/4/21, “Dragons are Good”

Quest of the Dreamwalker, (Corthan Legacy book 1) Stacy Bennett, Story-Power episode 29, 8/18/21, “Writing is Better with a Buddy”

Ivan Bodley, Story-Power episode 35 11/10/21, “Am I Famous Yet?”

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The Significance of Stories

“Humans are not ideally set up to understand logic; they are ideally set up to understand stories.” ~ Roger C. Shank, Cognitive Scientist

“I believe that a different therapy must be constructed for each patient because each has a unique story.” ~ Irvin D. Yale

“The computer can’t tell you the emotional story. It can give you the exact mathematical design, but what’s missing is the eyebrows.” ~ Frank Zappa

For three years, since I started my Story-Power podcast, I have been actively trying to define what it is about stories that make them so significant for us. When I read the Frank Zappa quote above, I finally got it. Logic is cold and lifeless. We need it in certain situations, but when we gather with friends and family, it’s the emotions behind the stories we share that enrich our lives.

This past weekend we traveled to Portland, Oregon to attend my cousin’s memorial service. It was an emotional weekend to say the least. She died on Easter Sunday four days before her 59th birthday. The family spent a lot of time before and after the service sharing stories not just about my cousin and how she’d touched us, but stories about what we’d learned from related events in our own lives.

It’s during these types of gatherings, where stories take on a special significance. That’s why we continue to have family reunions, get together for Christmases or High Holy Days, birthdays, weddings, and end of life events. Because these events give us permission to tell the emotional parts of our lives that we keep hidden most of the time.

Humans are emotional beings but for some reason, at least in the U.S., we hide them as if we’re ashamed of them. Or we’re afraid someone will take advantage of us if we show how we truly feel. Stoicism has been considered a virtue in some sectors of the population since ancient Greek and Roman times and may be the origin of the reprehensible practices of placing money, power, and prestige before caring for human beings.

If you don’t know what stoicism is, think of Spock in the Star Trek franchise. His character comes from a whole race of stoics who prize logic above emotion because they believe it makes them stronger. But what Spock learns is that it’s emotional connections with others that is of ultimate strength. The MCU has other examples of characters who believe that to suppress emotions makes us stronger. Yon-Rogg in Captain Marvel is continually telling Vers (Carol Danvers) that. But when she discovers who she really is, he finds out he’s wrong. After all, we’re built with nervous systems in our bodies, not computer chips.

I have to admit that there have been people in my life who attempted to make me feel less than because I loved stories so much and wanted to spend my life as a story seeker and teller. They thought I should put away childish things and follow the money. Sometimes they succeeded in making me question my choice of education or careers. Fortunately that time is finally over. 

To me stories are one of the most powerful forces in the world. They can touch and change us in ways we often can’t even define. Watching someone go through things on the screen or in a book that are difficult, even traumatic, and then coming out the other side a stronger person, that’s priceless. We get to experience something extraordinary that in our normal lives we wouldn’t be able to be a part of. And it’s all because the storyteller chose to open their heart and be vulnerable enough to share something really important with the rest of us. 

It feels to me like humans are changing from cold emotionless people seeking validation from outside ourselves to beings who long for emotional connection with others. I say that because looking at the stories being told now explore internal conflicts more readily than stories which are exclusively driven by external conflict. Or they are a combination of the two with emphasis on how the characters deal with external events internally. How do the characters change because of what happens to them?

I’m going to continue to explore this idea of what makes stories so important to us and share new insights with you as they come to me. I hope you’ll come along for the ride.

Stay cool if you’re in the Northern Hemisphere enjoy the cooler temps if you’re not.

Blessings,

Lucinda Sage-Midgorden © 2023

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John Wayne Does Shakespeare?

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My dad was a big fan of Westerns, and particularly John Wayne. We watched and discussed lots of them as I was growing up. One of my favorites is McLintock, (1963) a western comedy that is lots of fun. But I didn’t know it was an adaptation of a Shakespeare play until just a few years ago, when I had an epiphany as I watched the movie again. “That’s an adaptation of The Taming of the Shrew!” I had just shown Shrew in my dramatic structure class, so the plot was fresh in my head.

It’s pretty hard to mess up a Shakespeare story even if you’re John Wayne. But it’s also a great way to introduce his stories to those who think his work is inaccessible. 

I took two Shakespeare classes when I was studying theatre. The way I learned to understand his language was to read the play along with an audio recording of actors performing it. Once I began to understand the language, I fell in love with his work. And I began to notice stories based on his plays all over the place, like McLintock. Of course some of the details in such adaptations are changed from the original play, but still we get the benefit of the themes of the original stories.

In the case of John Wayne and Maureen O’Hara, they’re a middle aged married couple with a grown daughter who is just coming home from finishing school. The feud, of two years standing in this case, is over lipstick on George Washington McLintock’s collar. G.W. doesn’t know why Kate’s angry which makes his and our finding out part of the fun. However, it still has that problematic scene where G.W. spanks his wife to get her to give up her grudge. 

The way Petruchio treats Kate in the play is also problematic, but I’ve seen productions where, in the end, Kate manages to gain an equal footing with her new husband and gain his respect. To my mind, the play is a study in psychology because Kate is a shrew for a good reason. Her father loves Bianca, Kate’s sister, the most and doesn’t even try to hide the fact. Fortunately, Bianca’s deviousness gets exposed in the end.

In McLintock, the story centers around Katherine and G.W., while their daughter plays a much nicer Bianca, type character. Katherine’s reason for being angry is not so clear cut as in the play. Supposedly Wayne was trying to make a statement about marital abuse by either spouse. It’s a little hard to see that, but Kate IS verbally and even physically abusive to G.W. because of the lipstick thing. The only way G.W. can get Kate to stop and listen to him is to spank her in front of the whole town at the climax of the movie. 

The movie has other messages as well. For example, G.W. is the big man in the territory, but he honors the Native people too and thinks they got a raw deal from the Government, i.e. their representation in most westerns he was in, but had no control over. He and his daughter, Rebecca, have a heart-to-heart about marriage, and how a man and woman grow together by facing the tough times. And that’s why when he dies she will not inherit the entirety of his huge ranch. He’s giving most of the land he’s acquired to the country for a nature preserve. So, even though the movie is a fun romp with funny fight scenes, and all kinds of colorful characters, Wayne does manage to slip in some meaningful things for the audience to think about.

John Wayne is, of course, not the only person to adapt Shakespeare’s plays for a more modern take, or even to fit a different culture than Elizabethan England. There’s a partial list on Wikipedia if you care to find ones you might want to watch. Bollywood has made several. Macbeth was adapted by the famous, Akira Kurosawa into Throne of Blood. There is a long list of more modern adaptations like, 10 Things I Hate About You, another adaptation of Shrew. She’s the Man, an adaptation of Twelfth Night, and of course the musicals like, Kiss Me Kate, Shrew again and The Boys from Syracuse, The Comedy of Errors. Side note, I was in a production of The Boys from Syracuse during graduate school. 

Obviously there are too many adaptations for me to list here, but have some fun, watch an adaptation of a Shakespeare play and see if you don’t agree with me that his stories are just as relevant today as they were when he created them. 

By the way, Shakespeare was an adapter as well. Most of his stories are amalgams of lots of different stories, so those who adapt his work are carrying on his tradition.

Thanks for reading. I hope you’ll go enjoy an adaptation of a Shakespeare play this week. 

Blessings,

Lucinda Sage-Midgorden © 2023

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I’m so passionate about stories and what I can learn from them that I created the Story-Power podcast and Patreon communities so I’d have an excuse to talk story. You may have seen my Story-Power posts here. If you’re passionate about stories too, and want to talk about your favorite stories, come join me at patreon.com/StoryPower.

Saving the World One Story at a Time

Dale Carnegie wrote in his book How To Win Friends and Influence People, “Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand them. Let’s try to figure out why they do what they do. That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. ‘To know all is to forgive all.’” 

That’s why I’m hooked on stories. I get to watch the characters go through their emotional ups and downs, try to understand them and by extension, myself. If that sounds like something you’d like to try, you might want to consider taking my course Saving the World One Story at a Time.

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Don’t Retire, Do What you Love

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SnakeMilkers.com

Portrait of Leonard Nimoy on John’s website

For the Love of Spock, (2016) Director Adam Nimoy, Available on Netflix

Star Trek: The Next Generation (1987 – 1994) 

Outlander (2014 – ) Created by Ronald D. Moore, based on the novels by Diana Gabaldon

The Space Between Time, Lucinda Sage-Midgorden

Somewhere in Time, (1980) Director, Jeannot Szwarc, Screenplay, Richard Matheson, based on the novel, Bid Time Return

John Carter (2012) Director, Screenwriter, Andrew Stanton, based on a story “A Princess of Mars” by Edgar Rice Burroughs

Tarzan book series by Edgar Rice Burroughs

Adobe Suite, including InDesign and Photoshop software for graphics

Clip Studio Paint

Sage Woman Chronicles, Lucinda’s website and blog

Story-Power podcast on Libsyn,also available on Apple, Google, Spotify, Amazon

Trevor Valenzuela, “Caps off With John and Trevor” on YouTube

Literary License podcast

Vinnie Potestivo, Episode 69, 3/1/23 “Marketing Your Creative Work” on Apple podcasts

Goodreads, social media for book lovers

Letterboxd.com, social media for movie lovers

Story-Power on Patreon

I’m so passionate about stories and what I can learn from them that I created the Story-Power podcast and Patreon communities so I’d have an excuse to talk story. You may have seen my Story-Power posts here. If you’re passionate about stories too, and want to talk about your favorite stories, come join me at patreon.com/StoryPower.

PodMatch

If you are a podcaster, or have a message or fantastic product you want to share with the world, I encourage you to check out PodMatch. I call them a dating service for podcasters. Use the affiliate link and tell them, Lucinda sent you. Then contact me so we can set up a Story-Power chat.